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Get Your Girl to Game

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by Lisa Haasbroek

Lets talk about ladies and games for a minute! If you’re a man and a gaming addict, chances are good your wife or girlfriend might not be as hot on your hobby. Have you ever wished she’d understand the importance of beating the next level? Well, okay, there’s good reason she’s not as enthused, and it goes beyond wanting you to throw out the trash. While there’s tons of women who kick butt in your typical hack and slash, many of us simply don’t go in for action shooters. For a long time, that was the majority of the market…so its no surprise that many women came to view gaming as a “guy thing.”

Times are changing. According to the ESA (Entertainment Software Association), 38% of gamers are women. The average woman plays 7.4 hours per week, compared to 7.6 hours for men, and the gap is narrowing. For arguments sake, let’s say the women in your life is NOT one of the 38%. How do you encourage her to adopt a new hobby? The answer – start by finding games that appeal to HER. Over the next few articles, we’ll look at some games which might just spark her interest…


This is a good place start, since we can assume that mostly everybody reading has a PC at home. Casual games refer to budget games which target a large audience, requiring little skills to play. Kind of like the gaming equivalent of a “B” movie. Many can be downloaded at home for a free trial before you buy, costing as low as R50 each (its worth shopping around for the best deal).

I. Time Management Games

Time management games have players multitasking to care for children or serving customers, and are generally considered “soft” action games. This is one of the most popular genres for casual game fans.

Carrie the Caregiver

As a maternity nurse, its your job to feed, burp and diaper all of the cute babies in your care. The babies make cute realistic cooing sounds which is such a nice touch. Babies have their own personalities, so you need to manage that too. Loud babies cry and wake up others, while happy babies take a long time to feed, and preemie babies need extra care to avoid getting sick. This is perfect for Mommies-to-be. The sequel, Carrie the Caregiver 2: Preschool has Carrie working as a preschool teacher.

Sally’s Salon

Make over time! Customers come in for a wash, cut, style and blow dry. They sometimes ask to have their eyebrows plucked, or want a manicure too. Your job is to keep them happy and gorgeous while managing your salon. You can even hire assistants to help.

Diner Dash: Hometown Hero

Ever dream of running your own restaurant? Serve customers and develop your own food chain as you waitress your way to riches! You must seat the customers, bring them their menus, take orders, serve food, and clean up. The more customers you serve, the more cash you earn. If you take too long, the customers get angry and leave. Levels start off easy, but get harder and more frantic as you advance. “Diner Dash: Hometown Hero” is the fourth installment of the Diner Dash series, and the originator of the time management genre.

Other recommended titles in this genre: Cake Mania, Wedding Dash, Jane’s Hotel, Fashion Craze, Paradise Pet Salon, Daycare Nightmare, Turbo Pizza, Burger Shop, Nanny Mania, and Miss Management.

II. Hidden Object Games

Remember I-Spy games? In this genre, you search through a series of cluttered rooms, searching for hidden objects and revealing clues to a mystery or pieces of a story. This is another popular genre for casual gamers, with numerous titles to choose from.

Dream Day Wedding

This is a beautiful and romantic hidden object search, with a detailed story. Your best friend Jenny is getting married, and she needs your help to plan the wedding! As you search through wedding themed locations, you also guide the story by choosing the details of their romance, and selecting items like the cake and bouquet. Dream Day Honeymoon is the sequel.

Mystery Case Files: Ravenhearst

Investigate the haunted Ravenhearst Manor, and solve the mysterious disappearance of a young woman years before. Armed with only journal entries, you must solve the mystery of Emma’s life piece by piece, with truly disturbing ending. Others in this series include Mystery Case Files: Madame Fate, Mystery Case Files: Prime Suspects, and Mystery Case Files: Huntsville.

Agatha Christie – Death on the Nile

If you’re a fan of the novels, you’ll enjoy this mystery. While searching for clues to the murder of Lynette Doyle, you also interrogate suspects and watch the story unfold. Agatha Christie: Peril at End House is the latest release by these developers.

Other recommended titles in this genre: Mystery of Shark Island, The Scruffs, Hidden Expedition: Titanic, G.H.O.S.T. Hunters: The Haunting of Majesty Manor, Travelogue 360: Paris, Magic Academy, Abra Academy

III. Simulations

This is a pretty broad category, including all games which require you to put yourself in someone else’s shoes. Sims are among the best selling casual games on the market, appealing to both male and female gamers of all ages. The games reviewed below fall in to the “casual games” category of computer sims.

Desperate Housewives

Just about every woman I know is a fan of this show. The game puts you smack dab in the middle, interacting with the characters, solving mysteries from the show, smacking your enemies, and even stealing their husbands if you choose! You can even learn to cook. This game is only available on CD, but because it is a budget title, I’m grouping it in with the casual games. Make sure you have the right system requirements, because some users have trouble running it on their home computers.

Virtual Villagers: The Lost Children

After being shipwrecked, your villagers are now stranded on a mysterious desert island. You must guide your villagers into learning new skills and occupations, mating and having children, and surviving under harsh and unpredictable conditions. The game runs in real time, which means your villagers keep playing even when your PC is off. You might leave and return the next day to find a new baby, or that a villager passed away. Virtual Villagers: A New Home was the first in this series.

Pet Pals: Animal Doctor

Animal lovers will be unable to resist this game. You play as a Veterinarian, examining and diagnosing pets, and coping with emergencies along the way. It’s full of educational trivia. You also groom the animals in your care, learning different tools of the trade. Very unique, and a lot of fun. Legacy Interactive is a female-owned and managed company which produces many games like this one, which are designed to appeal to female audiences.

Other recommended titles in this genre: Kudos, Kudos Rock Legend, Beauty Factory, The Apprentice – Los Angeles, Cute Knight, Zoo Vet , and Ciao Bella.

IV. Adventures

This is another broad category of games, but adventure games can generally be thought of as any game with a focus on story development, exploration, and puzzle solving. Point and click adventures are reminiscent of Monkey Island and Space Quest, where users collect and use inventory items. Still other adventures may involve solving mysteries or questing.

Law and Order Justice is Served

 Unravel a complex mystery involving torrid love affairs, family scandals, and twisted obsessions. Then, take on the role of a district attorney, and convince the jury to bring back a guilty verdict. If you’ve ever seen the television series, you know what to expect. The 3D graphics are a lot of fun. Others in this series include Law & Order – The Vengeful Heart, and Law & Order – The Vengeful Heart.

Nancy Drew: Curse of Blackmoor Manor

A haunted mansion, a diplomat’s daughter, a mysterious illness…it’s a true Nancy Drew mystery, full of puzzles to solve. The ending blew me away. There are many Nancy Drew games available, like Nancy Drew – Danger by Design, Nancy Drew – Last Train to Blue Moon Canyon, or Nancy Drew – Danger on Deception Island. You’re bound to find a theme that suits your fancy. Her Interactive is another woman-owned gaming company which makes games that target female audiences.

Dream Chronicles

This game is gorgeous. You play as Faye, who awakens to find her husband missing, and her daughter and kingdom under a sleeping spell. Who is behind this? It’s not purely an adventure – more like a combination of puzzle solving and hidden object, with a fantasy inspired mystery. The art is very beautiful, and will appeal to fans of Fantasy.

Other recommended titles in this genre: The Blackwell Legacy, Aveyond, The Three Musketeers, Azada

Happy Gaming!

Next Up…Wii console games with female appeal.

Last Updated: December 3, 2007


  1. Lupus

    December 3, 2007 at 16:29

    I got my girlfriend a lot of these games mentioned here for the PC she absolutely loves most of them. Good link to download the trials is http://www.reflexive.com or http://www.gamehouse.com, their not to badly priced.


  2. LazySAGamer

    December 3, 2007 at 16:53

    Umm this wasn’t published yet… how did you find it?
    Oh well no time like the present to publish


  3. CattleBruiser

    December 3, 2007 at 17:11

    The only 2 games you need to Get Your Girl To Game:

    Hexic HD
    Luxor 2


  4. koldFU5iON

    December 3, 2007 at 17:11

    it’s a good article very informative…

    My Girlfriend and I sit and solve crimes with CSI: Hard Evidence, and soon the Old Classic Escape from Monkey Island! what a winner!


  5. BlueCollar

    December 3, 2007 at 17:18

    My g/f is big into RPGs. Oh and Guitar Hero, of course.


  6. redzombie

    December 3, 2007 at 17:51

    one game halo 3 was thrown in a match with just girls , and all from SA. They kicked my @ss …


  7. doobiwan

    December 3, 2007 at 17:54

    My Wife also thoroughly enjoyed CSI:HE

    She a big time adventure gamer and gets a lot of user created stuff from AGS:


  8. LazySAGamer

    December 3, 2007 at 18:05

    Just a quick note to say congrats to Lisa for getting her story picked up by N4G….


    Front page already… well it is at time of writing this.


  9. boswald

    December 3, 2007 at 19:48

    If I had to recommend one game, my G/F can’t stop playing MySims on the Wii. Only problem is now I need to wait before I can play something 🙂


  10. Peter Collins

    December 3, 2007 at 20:04

    More girl friendly games:

    Freeware (Abandonware) “Princess Maker 2”
    – child raising simulation game where you have
    to budget cash for school (and various classes),
    entertainment, gifts, clothes and accessories to
    raise a daughter, too strict and she hates you,
    too lenient and she runs away, run out of cash
    and she starves, also don’t let her gain too much weight.

    Xbox360 – Eternal Sonata very girl friendly
    I would think as there is a deeper story to
    just slashing ahd hacking away at animated bitmaps.

    Import – dating sims for Girls, these actually exist,
    sadly not in English. Sentimental Grafitti Girl’s Side
    is the best known one.


  11. Peter Collins

    December 3, 2007 at 20:35

    Oh yeah, forgot, I’m sure many girls would appreciate
    visual novels. These are like computer books with voice
    and visuals except there is choice when it comes to major



  12. ZYon

    December 3, 2007 at 21:33

    Ooooooo, Mev. Haasbroek dankie vir die informele stukkie inligting …

    Interesting how some of these games actually appeal to women/chicks/girls whatever they are called these days….


  13. J4NR1K

    December 4, 2007 at 08:38

    My wife loves: Hexic, Halo 1,2,3 , C&C 3, COD4, TombRaider… basically all good games…except for any GTA title…hates those.


  14. Abev

    December 4, 2007 at 08:40

    I gotta say, with all respect to ms Haasbroek, thats one kuk selection of games, looks like something my little sister would enjoy.


  15. doobiwan

    December 4, 2007 at 09:46

    Then I suggest you also get her to show you how to read as well, it is a list of GAMES FOR GIRLS!


  16. Pfangirl

    December 4, 2007 at 10:07

    As a female gamer since 1987 or so, here’s my 2 cents:

    My sister and I started gaming with platformers (on the NES) and adventure games (especially the LucasArts classics).

    None of these games were “girlie” and today I still baulk at games that try waaay too hard to appeal to the female sex. It’s fine for little girls but please don’t pull that pink, flopsy bunny shit with grown women. Don’t patronise us.

    I would always put my money behind gender neutral games that are more about the immersive, fun, playing experience.


  17. Abev

    December 4, 2007 at 10:26

    Doobi, you missed my point but Pfangirl got it spot on.
    The article is supposed to show games that you can show your girlfriend, Im sure most of us are at the stage where our gilrs are a little more mature than the selection above.
    Pfangirl hit it perfectly with “patronise”


  18. LazySAGamer

    December 4, 2007 at 10:36

    Personally I see nothing wrong with girlie games, I obviously see nothing wrong with girls playing non-girlie games as well…

    I don’t think either is patronising.


  19. Milesh Bhana ZA

    December 4, 2007 at 11:05

    my gf games, but it’s not her primary hobby, which suits me fine. There’d be too much fighting over the TV. (and there’s no way I’m affording two HD-TVs!).

    Getting a non-gamer to play (male or female) is best done with casual games. My gf is addicted to Luxor 2.


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